I've been collecting a number of mini "moments" waiting for the major event to come to bring it all together in a blog...so far it hasn't happened. I fear losing some of the thoughts so will compile a somewhat random list of thoughts that one may ponder...
Am I truly a redneck? My Brazilian friend asked if living in Minnesota made me a redneck!!??? WHAT? I quickly asked "do you think I look like a redneck"? After quite a bit of joking around the question, we came to an agree that a redneck would not have sought an assignment in Turkey, instead they would be in the woods hunting turkeys!!!! :) This again is an example of the freedom to learn about our IBM colleges in a non-threatening environment...next time he asks me though, I may threaten him!
We had coffee/tea with the Governorate last Friday at an excellent coffee shop named Mado. I would compare this event to having coffee with Governor Pawlenty. I actually could never imagine me getting that opportunity so find it interesting that the work we are doing in Malatya is worthy of the Governorate's companionship. The Governorate travels with security guards...they strategically positioned themselves in the coffee shop near the door in clear sight of the Governorate. Someone had an eye on him at all times...it only took the raising of a finger to have someone at his service. Wow, just an interesting experience to be a part of.
The Turkish love tea! How much tea can you drink in a day!? Yesterday we had a number of meetings with textile enterprises...today I was begging for a reduced number of meetings to recalibrate the chemical balance in my body. Every meeting you have, you must drink tea...even if you decline a cup of tea, magically, there will be a cup of tea placed in front of you...you can not avoid it. From 1pm to 7pm yesterday, I drank 3 cups of tea, 1 nescafe, 1 Turkish tea, 2 cups of water and via second hand, smoked approximately 8 cigarettes! YIKES...I stopped drinking caffeine 8 years ago...this is overload!
The Turkish people are so hospitable...becareful what you say or do!!! The hospitality of the Firat agency and the people we have met thus far in our journey could not be more genuine and accomodating. Being a highly independent person, I'm realizing that I may need to control the comments or questions that I ask. Most of the CSC team is very inquisitive but through this, we find ourselves being gifted from the Turkish people. If you ask about something or possibly even look at something, they will buy it for you so you can try it! It is not permissable for a woman to pay for a man so I AM OUT OF LUCK in repaying them for their generosity...that doesn't set well with me! This I see as a challenge, I must overcome! :)
Just around the riverbend...in Darende! We went rafting this past weekend in Darende...it was a long journey through the winding mountain roads but a great opportunity to see the remote Turkish countrysides. Through translation, we went through the guidelines for rafting. We had for words that we needed to remember for our paddle...the guide would give the commands in Turkish to direct right, left, forward and backward.... In the heat of the moment as our raft is spinning out of control, our guide has lost all hope that we'll understand his Turkish guidance. He quickly picked up on our English discussion and declares "everyone forward" to accomodate us in English...and periodically would throw in an "Oh my God" with a clever Turkish accent! Laughing hysterically, of course we couldn't keep the raft under control!
Choose your seat well! Many of us from the CSC team clearly stand out in Turkey. Tonight 3 of us took the public bus to the city center to take a look around. People are always interesting in understanding who we are and where we're from. It is truly an experience to be an individual of many words yet not have the ability to communicate with anyone around you! We are in our own Turkish world, there would be so much more enjoyment if we could FULLY engage with the Turkish people. Being a minority is quite unusual for me...perhaps selecting a seat on the bus that faces backwards while everyone else faces forward wasn't the best choice. Again, ALL eyes are on the Canadian and native Americans that just boarded the bus! Is it polite to stare!? :)
Over and over again, we are reminded to "go with the flow" as time for many parts of the world are fluid and schedules always change. I like fluid time cause for me, I struggle with being somewhere at a certain time...always have, I probably always will. We've had a number of meetings in Turkey and I don't think we've been on time to one of them! Let me clarify that our tardiness is not due to me...it's the matrix of possible circumstances that "could" and ultimately do hinder our promptness. Oddly enough though, the city bus is scheduled to arrive at 10pm...at 10:01, we are pulling out of the station...hmmm...there is timeliness buried within...this I must remember! :)
With this, I will close for the night. While this experience isn't what I would have expected, I can truly say that it has been an incredible journey! There is always a friend among us, we need to be able to make the connections...
çay lütfen! :)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turkish_tea
http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/l%C3%BCtfen